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INTIMACY WITH SELF

Intimacy with Self

  • Self-discovery
  • Body awareness
  • Solitude
  • Rest

Self-intimacy is Moonlight’s term for an attentive and honest relationship with one’s own sensations, emotions, preferences, boundaries, imagination, and pace. It is not self-absorption and does not require constant self-confidence. It means becoming more able to notice and respect one’s lived experience before performing for another person.

Self-intimacy is Moonlight’s term for an attentive and honest relationship with one’s own sensations, emotions, preferences, boundaries, imagination, and pace. It is not self-absorption and does not require constant self-confidence. It means becoming more able to notice and respect one’s lived experience before performing for another person.

Intimacy

Intimacy is the experience of being known, met, or connected with an appropriate degree of openness and safety. It may be emotional, intellectual, physical, sensual, sexual, creative, or spiritual. Intimacy is not automatically sexual, and sexual activity is not automatically intimate.

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  • Two Days Before Anyone Stops Watching

    Somewhere on the second afternoon you notice there is nobody you are being anybody for — and that the monitoring you have run for years was taking up far more room than you knew. Japan is one of the easiest places on earth to do this, the pricing objection has mostly dissolved, and the risk you were taught to imagine is not the risk that exists here.

  • Fulfilled Singles

    The readiness frame is a tax on the present, friendship is the form that starves quietest, and nobody is assigned to notice you — so the noticing has to be dated.

  • Alone, On Purpose

    One number ends a long argument. About sixty-five per cent of heterosexual women usually or always orgasm with a familiar partner; about eighty-six per cent of lesbian women do. Same anatomy, twenty-one points apart — so whatever has been going wrong was never located in anybody’s body.

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